WHAT A WEEK!

We had a busy week this week!  On Tuesday and Wednesday we had Couples Conference; on Friday and Saturday we were at the Tokyo Temple, and on Sunday we had branch conference.  Here is the rundown of what we did:

Tuesday and Wednesday found us in Sendai (one and a half hours away) at Couples Conference.  There are six couples in our mission:  three from Japan and three from America.  All of us connected  immediately and we had a great time.  Those Japanese couples are incredible!  They bring with them so much enthusiasm and experience that it is hard not to learn from them.  We arrived at the conference wondering what else we needed to be doing and if we had enough to do.  We left the conference wondering if we had enough time to do everything . 

Some of the things we talked about were:  how we can find service opportunities in our communities, how to visit and help the less active people in our branch, how to work with and help the members of our branch, and how to help and fit in with the younger missionaries in our mission.  We had such a strong spirit of what we are doing here and had fun at the same time.  We went out to eat at a great Japanese restaurant and got to know our mission president and his wife better.  PLUS it was great to stay in a real house (the mission home) and be served food without having to cook!

Here is a picture of us at the conference:

Friday morning at 6:00 a.m.found us on our way to Tokyo.  But before we actually got to Tokyo we made a stop at COSTCO!  Yes, Costco here in Japan.  We brought plenty of cash (cash only except a Costco credit card) but didn't spend as much as we had hoped.  There were lots of things that were very familiar (lots of Kirkland brand products, Orville Redenbacher popcorn--microwave and plain, Skippy p-nut butter, snacks, etc.) but there were a lot of Japanese products which we bought some of those:  especially brown rice.  Some noticeable absences were:  no sour cream, powdered sugar, or granola bars.  An interesting price:  $40 for 2 lb. of butter!  But all in all it was a great experience as you can see below:

The above photo has a caption:  WHERE'S THE BEEF?  Notice that they have all-PORK hot dogs!  This is not a complaint:  just a cultural difference.  It was great anyway.  Plus one funny note is that the Japanese love their pickled veggies and sauerkraut is no exception.  They had a big tub of sauerkraut with the other condiments and lots of people were just taking a scoop and eating it whether they had a hot dog or not.

 

 

And I had to add this picture of a store near the temple in Tokyo.  Notice the Bettty Crocker cake mixes.  They have a price of 787 yen.  That's about $10 for one box of cake mix!

We finally made it to Tokyo around 4:00 p.m.  Destination:  the Tokyo LDS Temple.  We stayed in the basement of the Church next door to the temple where they have dorm-type rooms.  Since it was our stake's temple day the place was so crowded.  In fact, Calvin and quite a few of the other men ended up sleeping on the floor in the chapel!  But it was a wonderful time to attend the temple.  We went to an English session on Friday night and 2 Japanese sessions on Saturday morning (we had English headphones).  Our one regret was that some of the members of our branch were going to come but didn't make it because they were driving overnight and there was a big snowstorm in the Ishinomaki-Sendai area and a big rainstorm in the Tokyo area.  We left Tokyo around 12:30 and arrived back in Ishinomaki around 5:30 tired but energized by the great week we had had.

On Sunday we had branch conference which meant that the leaders from our stake came and attended our church and had lots of leadership meetings.  After our Church services we had a meal with food brought by the members.  I had to include this picture which is incredible.  One of the members brought this sushi that I have never seen before.  It has a square of egg in the middle with pink rice and white rice and a quarter of a cucumber.  It was so beautiful I had to take a picture.  And for all of you fish haters--no raw fish!

So that has been our week.  So exhausting but so great.  Plus, we had the biggest earthquake that we have felt thus far tonight.  Just thought I'd mention that.  But we are fine . . . .

POST SCRIPT:

I just wanted to mention something about the mail service once again.  On Tuesday afternoon we asked the missionary couple in the office to order us some "mugi."  It is a wheat cereal.  Anyway, I am not sure when it got ordered but on Saturday when we got back from Tokyo we had a delivery attempt notice that they had attempted to deliver it on Friday at 12:30.  The mugi company is about 2-3 hours away.  We called at 7:00 p.m. on Saturday night because it said they would answer anytime.  Well, within FIVE MINUTES of when we hung up they were at our doorstep!  Yes, this was 7:00  on a Saturday night!  Unbelievable.

FOOD FABULOUS FOOD?!

Okay since some of our most interesting moments this week have centered around food, I decided to let you in on what we have eaten.  First, by far one of the strangest and stinkiest moments was this:

We went to the grocery store and saw this package of what appeared to be some fish parts and it said "nabe" which means pan.  That meant it was for soup.  Anyway, when I got home and decided to make the soup I opened the package and what had been hidden is that I had two fish tails and a fish head!  The heads had been turned downward so you couldn't see the eyes and the tail fins had been tucked so you couldn't see them either!  My what deceptive marketing!!!!  But being the adventurous person that I am I decided to cook this up anyway.  The result:  okay fish broth but the worst smelling kitchen ever!  I did make the soup and it was allright but I will NEVER do that again since the stench was just not worth it.  I still think the house smells bad.

Okay on to something else.  The next day (Thursday) we were invited out to eat with one of the sisters in the ward and the Relief Society president.  We went to this restaurant that I think was VERY expensive.  They served this exclusive meal that was top quality:

It had lots of food but not too big of portions.  The rice was in these little bowls that had some other things (fish and vegetables) in it and had been cooked in the cast iron bowls so the rice was just a little crispy on the bottom.  It was called tamameshi.  It was served with miso soup, a couple of pieces of sashim (raw fish), some tempura shrimp and veggies (batter fried), a bowl of noodles, and probably something else I haven't mentioned.  By the end we were stuffed and it was SO good.

On Saturday morning we went to a town about 30 minutes away to do service at the temporary housing unit.  We ended up making the soup for people living there:

 

Those big pots above held the soup and others helped clean the temporary housing units which are lived in by those displaced by the tsunami and many of them are older.  The people who volunteered were from the Church in Tokyo and they were instructed to help them deep clean and talk to the people.  The picture below shows some of the units.  It is hard to tell in this picture but they are not separate units but are hooked together and each family has only a small living space.

On Saturday evening we had our Relief Society social.  We had dinner and I was amazed at the plethora of food (this is only half of the table!):



There was tons of sushi, salads, meats, tempura, strawberries, and desserts.  Unfortunately, I am feeling rather large after this week's feasting.

BUT I am sure you will be interested to know that my FAVORITE of all this week still has not been mentioned!  We walked 2 miles to a small vegetable shop in the downtown district and bought a large head of lettuce.  I have not really seen that here before.  Anyway, this lettuce was so crisp and juicy and made the BEST grilled chicken salad I can remember.  It was topped off with red pepper strips, mushrooms and green onion and caesar dressing.  It was by FAR my favorite food of the week (some of you are laughing because you know I love grilled chicken salad!).  Calvin will probably disagree because he loves sushi and other Japanese food but I can have my opinion too I guess.  I am now looking forward to many more salads here in Japan!


OTHER NOTABLE NOTES:

*  I loved getting out and walking this week.  I have decided to stop complaining about the weather here.  It has started to warm up (it is usually at least 45 degrees!) and at least we aren't freezing in our apartment either.

*  I took some banana cake and cookies to institute class on Wednesday.  Everyone loves refreshments and around here they gladly take home leftovers.  The funny thing is that they are convinced I cook American food although I get everything off the internet and buy all the ingredients here.  Plus hardly anyone cooks from scratch around here.

*  We felt the 6.8 earthquake this past week.  It was actually quite a ways away from here but we did feel it.  It was not that strong but the unusual thing was it lasted over a minute.  Most earthquakes we have felt don't last more than 10 seconds.  Then that evening we felt 3-4 more small aftershocks.  That is also unusual because there aren't usually more than one a day.

*  We are going to the Tokyo temple and Costco this week.  Stay tuned!!!!!!!

ONE YEAR AGO . . .

So today is the one year anniversary of the 9.0 earthquake and tsunami that hit Japan on March 11, 2011.  Another missionary couple that we know had just arrived in Japan two or three days before w this happened.  They said they were in their car when the earthquake hit and it lasted for TWELVE MINUTES!  It came in waves but never really stopped.  It was so violent at times that their heads were bouncing off the inside top of their car.  Then about a half hour later at 2:46 p.m. the tsunami hit.  Almost everyone remembers the time.  In that short amount of time people were being warned of the tsunami and told to go to higher ground.  Sirens were sounding.

Today we went to Hiyoriyama Park which overlooks Ishinomaki.  We could see all around the city, to the ocean, and the river that empties into the ocean.  We were there with a few hundred others who wanted to be there when it was 2:46 p.m.  At that time sirens sounded for about 30 seconds.  There were large tents set up with dignitaries in one and a Buddhist service in another.  No one spoke out loud.  Everyone whispered.  This is a picture of part of the view that we had:

This picture above is near the mouth of the river and there is an island which was just about totally leveled.  There used to be buildings on it.  In the middle there is a statue of liberty.  Interestingly enough, that statue is about all that made it through the tsunami.  The water was up to the top of the statue.  The land around the river was flooded a lot.  The main downtown area is to the left of the picture and it was hit hard.  Most of the buildings are gone.

Yesterday we had a service project south of us near Sendai.  We went to a school which had been damaged, probably not fixable, to make some paper lanterns with candles in them to float down the river there today in memory of those who lost their lives.   We made 3,000-4,000 lanterns.  Altogether about 12,000 died in the tsunami.  Here are is a picture of that service project:

And here are some pictures from the school.  Notice how the fence which is made of iron or steel is all smashed down.  Also there is a clock on the school which has stopped at 2:46 (when the tsunami hit).

This next picture is a boat which is in back of the school.  There were three boats in back of the school.  We could not even see the ocean and there were still boats in the back yard.

This picture below shows the area around the school.  There is nothing but a lot of foundations from houses that used to be there.

The rest of these pictures are random photos of what we have seen:  huge heap of garbage (several stories high), concrete building on its side, building with a car on top of it, rubble, and what is left of a cemetary:



Whenever we go to these places it seems like we are on hallowed ground.  It is like there is still a spirit there of these people.  Everyone we talk to talks about the tsunami.  Many people are still haunted by it.  Today there are 340,000 people living in the three hardest hit prefectures (kind of like states) that are living in temporary housing units.  They are allowed to live there for one more year.  No one knows where they will go then.  Some may rent their units but they are tiny.

Today I realized that I thought of the events as a remembrance of what happened.  The people here think of it as a life-changing event in their lives and a day of REMEMBERING.  I also came to realize that I have a long way to go in learning humility, compassion and charity.  These people are way better at it than I am.

ON THE LIGHTER SIDE:

This has been a pretty serious blog but I wanted to tell you a few lighter moments we have had this week.  Last week I think I mentioned about how sometimes things are lost in translation.  This week a few more things were said that I thought were funny.

Today in Sunday School we were talking about "feasting" on the words of Christ.  The teacher asked what the difference was between a regular meal and a feast.  Here are a couple of responses (the Japanese can have a great sense of humor):

           *A feast has a lot more calories.

           *You can eat a regular meal with chopsticks.  A feast involves a knife and fork.

After church I approached one of the women and volunteered to bring some food to our Relief Society (women's group) social this Saturday.  They were very excited and said yes could I bring a dessert?  I then said (in English) "I can bring chocolate cake and ice cream."  They jumped up and down and clapped.  Apparently chocolate cake and ice cream is universal language.

Yesterday I was talking to one of the younger sister missionaries from Utah.  She was paired with a companion from Japan.  She was saying how they were teaching each other their own language and that sometimes it became a fun experience.  Her Japanese companion had had a problem and she came to this sister and said, "I had an accident!"  This American sister stifled a laugh and said that was probably not the best choice of words.

RANDOM WRITINGS

So I couldn't think of any huge and monumental thing to write about this week so I decided to write a few random thoughts and happenings around here.  (For those of you who think ALL of my thoughts are random, sorry about that.)

Lost in Translation?:

It is kind of a tradition in Japan to give food to the missionaries.  We have heard that some areas get lots of stuff but we have not been overwhelmed (thankfully).  Anyway, when the people give you something they say, "I want you to have this furuto basketo."  Translation:  fruit basket.  Never mind that they have just handed you a plastic grocery bag with no fruit in it!  And since I know some of you are dying to know what is really in these bags, these are some of the thing we have gotten:  fresh fish, ham (more like bacon around here), Johnsonville hot dogs (really expensive), canned corn and beans, spaghetti and macaroni, and salsa.  I think they are trying to give us American food.  But, nevertheless, we are always grateful because many of these things are foods I don't buy because they are expensive. 

Why We Don't Order Pizza:

This week we got an advertisement in the mail (not all that usual) about a pizza delivery place.  Apparently it is one of the more well-known places for pizza in Japan.  Here is a sample of what you can order (no tax or delivery charge or tip): 
           Thickly sliced bacon with corn pizza        small:  $10.97             large:  $29.66
           Seafood Italian pizza                                                                     large:  $44.49
           Purokogi Potato pizza (teriyaki?)                                                  large:  $33.89
           Tuna Mayo pizza                                                                           large:  $35.33
           Hawaiian                                                    small:  $14.39             large:  $35.33
I converted the prices into US dollars.  Also the Hawaiian is considered a "kids" pizza.

Sickly:

Calvin suffered from a cold much of this week so we didn't get out as much as usual.  Here is his sickly picture:

We went to our branch president's house this past Friday evening and had a family night with his family.  They served us dinner (ham, rice, avacado-mayo-shrimp salad, miso soup, potatoes).  Then we had a lesson on the Parable of the Talents in Matthew and then everyone showed off their talents with a talent show.  It was a fun activity and the boys (ages 10 and 11) actually got into the fun by showing us some of their talents (magic trick and yo yo tricks).  My talent was the dessert.  I made chocolate pudding cake in a rice cooker!  It worked great, especially topped with vanilla ice cream.  For those of you who don't know what chocolate pudding cake is, it is a chocolate cake or almost a brownie which ends up in a pudding sauce on the bottom.  Very yummy.  This is the recipe:

            Chocolate Pudding Cake:
            Butter the rice cooker pan (or 9X13 pan for you less adventurous)
            Mix together in a bowl:  1 c. flour, 3/4 c. sugar, 3 Tbsp cocoa, 2 tsp baking powder,
                    1/4 tsp salt, 1/2 c. milk, 2 Tbsp. vegetable oil.  Pour into pan.
            Sprinkle on top of batter:  3/4 c. brown sugar, 1/4 c. cocoa
            Pour 1 3/4 c. boiling water over all.
            Punch the rice cooker button.  (or cook at 350 till done)
            It should come out with the pudding on the bottom.  Don't overcook or the pudding will
                      absorb too much into the cake.  My rice cooker took about 50 minutes and then I
                      left it for about 10 minutes more to cook a little more.

Everyone loved this!  The Japanese LOVE chocolate and ice cream.  I couldn't go wrong!

Holidays in Japan:

We have seen a few holidays in Japan.  Nothing major. 
            Feb. 2:  Setsubun Day.  You throw beans out of your window or doorway to ward off
                         evil spirits
            Feb. 14:  Valentines Day.  Not nearly as exciting as in the States.  The girls give
                          chocolate to the boys (romantic inclinations, office workers, just friends)
            Mar. 14:  White Day.  Hasn't come yet but apparently the guys now give chocolate
                          back to the girls that gave them chocolate for Valentines Day.  Sounds like a
                          retail scam to me!  The guys are encouraged to outdo the girls.
            Mar. 3:  Girls Day.  The girls display their dolls and are honored.

Weather:

We are tired of winter!  Our new hope is that spring will come soon and we will WALK wherever we can.  Nothing is that far away!

Indulgences:

For me, I bought an ice cream sundae at McDonald's.
For Calvin,  we bought two boxes of Swiss Miss hot cocoa mix which were on clearance ($2.50
      each/10 in a box)

Look forward:

That's about all I have to write about but next Sunday is the anniversary of the earthquake and tsunami.  We are doing a service project this Saturday for it and we have been saving our pictures to show all of you what we have seen.  I noticed on the internet (KSL, MSN, etc) that they have been having video clips in remembrance of the tsunami.  Many of the clips are from here in Ishinomaki.
So till next week:  Have a good one!

MISSION CONFERENCE

This week we had a mission-wide conference.  I guess this is not all that common since it was the first one that our current mission president has had and he has been here since last July.  We had a visiting authority who was Elder Dallin Oaks, one of the Twelve Apostles in our Church.  (In the Church the top authority is our president/prophet, Thomas S. Monson and he has two counselors; next would be the Twelve Apostles, twelve men who act as a body as special witnesses of Jesus Christ.)  This was a great honor to have Elder Oaks come and not all that common.

Here are some pictures:

The first picture is of all of the missionaries in our mission (the visiting authorities sitting in the front).  The second picture is a closer view with us standing on the second row (!).  And the third we had to insert since it shows Calvin shaking hands with Elder Oaks.  Our mission president, President Rasmussen is standing to the left of Elder Oaks.  (Actually to Elder Oaks' right but to our left!)
The meeting actually began at 10:00 a.m. but we were there VERY early (by 8:00 a.m.) to practice singing a hymn that our zone sang during the meeting.  Also the pictures were actually taken before the conference meeting. 

The meeting (2 hours) went by rapidly and was really great.  One of the things that almost all of the speakers touched on was that our Heavenly Father loves us and knows us each personally.  The Lord loves His children in every nation and brings a message of hope and love.

One of the messages that I enjoyed most was begun when President Rasmussen said he had received a letter from one of missonaries recently that told of his week:  they had shoveled snow around the church, attended an early morning seminary class, mailed postcards to members with their favorite scripture, made an appearance at a young mens/young womens dance to show support of their youth program, gone to church early to help set up chairs, and done other service-oriented things.  The letter concluded that although their stats sheets (how many people they contacted, how many lessons they taught, etc) may not show it, they felt that they had a very successful week.

When Elder Oaks began his talk he said in response to President Rasmussen's comments: " The things we can't count are usually more important than those we can."  He then gave some examples such as:  We can count how many people go to church; but we can't count those who truly partake of the sacrament with a sincere heart.  We can count the number of missionaries we have; but we can't count how many of those missionaries have the real spirit of commitment and desire to do the work.  We can count that there are 14 million members of our Church; but we can't count how many have been truly converted to live the way Christ would have them live.

I thought of this and realized how true this is.  This week I got letters from two of my grandchildren.  It was report card time.  They both reported they got straight A's (stat).  But then they said that their teachers at parent-teacher conferences had said things like:  he adds a lot of personality to the class; he makes friends with everyone and everyone likes him, she is always helpful, she is respectful, she is a good student (things not on the stat sheet but probably count more).

How often do we look at the stats and not really see what is behind those numbers?  It seems like when we really get involved we see what is really important.

FUNNIES:

I do have to tell you that these missionaries we deal with are still mostly only 19-21 years old and sometimes I feel really old around them (like I could be their GRANDmother!)  With a visiting authority everyone was trying to be on their best behavior and sometimes we were reminded how youthful they are like:

Before the conference one of the district leaders (a missionary) got up and strongly suggested that this would be a good time to go the restroom and said maybe you should try even if you don't think you have to (can you hear his mother saying this to him?!)

When we were posing for our group picture before Elder Oaks came in, some of the missionaries were standing on chairs.  They were reminded:  when you get down, please DON'T jump!

And Elder Oaks said, "I just pray that you elders will go home and get married so you can have the adult supervision that you need!"

ALSO

We went to our first 100 yen sushi restaurant.   You go in and there are these conveyor belts that bring your sushi to you.  You can order what you want (usually 2 on a plate) or take ones that are going around on the conveyor belt.  Each plate is 100 yen (about $1.25) which is pretty cheap around here.  When you order you use a touch screen with pictures and they also have soups, noodles and desserts.  Some cost a little more but most are 100 yen.  In Japan the sushi is mostly some rice with raw fish on top that you eat by dipping it into soysauce/wasabi/ginger whatever mix you want.  There are all kinds of fish.  And there some that don't have raw fish.  I think I saw some with tempura shrimp on it.  At the end you press a buzzer (like a doorbell) and the waitress comes and counts up your dishes and writes out your bill.  Calvin and I got through almost $20 worth of sushi but I ate way too much.  These places are all over so now we will have to try different ones!
The buzzer thing is at all restaurants.  When you want to order you press the buzzer.  If you need something you press the buzzer. 

Sorry if I'm ending with a bad taste in your mouth (raw fish).  But that's all for now!

GOOD EXAMPLE

Yesterday we attended a baptism of an eight-year old in our branch (The youngest you can be baptized in our Church is 8 years old.  We believe that at that age a child begins to realize the significance of his baptism and that he can begin to be accountable for his actions.).  As in all the baptisms I have attended, it was a sweet time of commitment which actually only took a total of about 30 minutes.  This is a copy of the program we were given as we entered:

It may be a little hard to see this clearly but the amazing thing was this young eight-year hand wrote his own program and then his mother printed it.  The first page (top) gives the date and time of the baptism.  The next page on the right gives a few pictures of him and some captions he wrote next to it.  I think the top pictures was a baby picture and actually gave his birth height and weight.  The other pictures tell a little about him, where he goes to school and what he likes to do.

On the left side is the program:  Opening hymn, prayer, 2 talks, 2 songs by the other Primary (children's organization) children, the actual baptism, short remarks and thank you from him, the closing hymn, and prayer). 

Several of the people attending gave Yuuta (this young boy's name) a small gift in congratulations.  Yuuta and his brothers (ages 4 and 11) had baked cookies and put them in little bags and then when someone gave Yuuta a gift, he thanked them and gave them a cookie as additional thanks.  The whole thing was so amazing because this mother had taken the time to make Yuuta a real part of his baptism. 

I look back and think that I tried to involve my children in the special events of their lives but maybe I didn't do as good a job as I could have.  I am not advocating that every child handwrite his own program but maybe we lose patience and just do everything ourselves.  This was such a learning opportunity.  I guess there is a time for not giving them that opportunity (a surprise party?) but there are so many times that we can show our children and grandchildren what a wonderful accomplishment they have made by involving them in the celebration.

NEXT:  Driving in Japan

I thought I would tell you a little about driving in Japan:

1.  I already mentioned that you drive on the left side of the road and not the right side.

2.  The roads are narrow and wind a lot.

3.  One of the main ways to tell if cars are coming when you turn is to look at the big round mirrors in front of you which are pointing to both sides of where the traffic is coming.  It is impossible to tell if there are cars coming (on the side streets) from either direction because the buildings are too close to the road.  So you TOTALLY depend on the mirrors!

4.  There are tons of bicycles and pedestrians.

5.  When you park, you BACK into the space! 

6.  The turn signal and windshield wiper lever are on opposite sides than we are used to so you are
always turning on the windshield wipers instead of your turn signal.

7.  Because of number 1 above,  a left turn is easier than a right turn.

8.  There is no road rage (we have only been passed once) and the drivers are usually very polite and let you in if there is a long line of cars and you need to turn.

9.  There is a lot of traffic and the traffic signals are pretty long.

10.  After a month and a half of being here,  we saw our FIRST car accident yesterday.  It was basically a bad fender bender.

Hope your week is good.  We are looking forward to a great one!

AROUND THE WORLD

Quiz:

I thought I would begin this post with a quiz.  The Japanese often give their businesses an American name but those names are often a little far-fetched.  Try to guess what types of businesses these are (answers at the end of the blog): 
1.  Gleam House
2.  2nd Street
3.  Sun R Us
4.  Soft Bank
5.  Joy Park
6 . Joyfull
7.  Homac

For the past few weeks, as you know, we have been visiting members and non-members of our Church.  We have gotten into about ten homes and visited outside with about the same number.  I thought I would give you a glimpse of our visits.

All of the places we went into have one thing in common.  They all have a small area--3 or 4 feet square--right after you enter.  This is where you are to remove your shoes.  The trick is that there is a step up to the main area of the house and you must remove your shoes and step up without your stockingfeet ever touching the bottom area.  This is very hard(impossible?) if you are wearing boots!  It is not actually that easy if you are wearing slip-on shoes.  Anyway, I have pretty much given up wearing boots when we visit.

Once in the house you are led to a livingroom area.  Of the ten houses (most are actually apartments) only two had western style living areas.  One had a sofa and a baby grand piano (they are very into music) and the other home had a family-type room with a large dining table and a large hutch and a flatscreen TV.  All of the other livingrooms were small rooms with a square low-to-the-ground table with cushions surrounding it to kneel on.  Yes, this can get pretty excruciating after sitting for 30 or 40 minutes but at least these people know we are Americans so they don't get too upset if we squirm or adjust our position.  In fact, at least three of the places had tables with blankets on top of them that hung to the ground.  Under the table was a heater so you are supposed to put your legs under the table to keep warm. 

Which brings me to the next point:  No house or apartment has central heating!  Our apartment has a heater in the main livingroom-kitchen area which we turn off when we leave and at night.  The bedrooms and bathrooms are never heated (they are closed off with a door) and that means they get pretty cold.  Right now our computer says that Ishinomaki is 30 degrees but feels like 17!  So as we visit, the rooms are cold and as we enter, they turn on a small heater that will hopefully warm up the room a bit.

Usually we are offered a small refreshment, a hot drink, rice crackers, cookies, etc.

Then we begin talking and getting to know the people.  These are some of their stories:

One man is 91 years old and has been blind since he was 30.  He has a picture of Christ on his wall and happily points to it just knowing it is there.  He cooks, cleans, and does his own laundry.  His wife has died and his entire apartment is probably about 10X30 (bedroom, livingroom, kitchen) plus a bathroom I imagine.  His apartment is very cold.  He loves talking to us.  He used to give massages for a living and now comes to church and gives massages after church for free.  And he is good.

One lady is older and can hardly walk.  She lives in an apartment on the 4th floor with no elevator.

One family has a daughter who is mentally unstable.  She is suicidal (age 20-25) and has tried numerous ways to end her life.  She is in and out of mental hospitals.  We met her and she is nice but we can tell she knows she has problems.

One family lives in poverty.  They have five adults living in a small apartment but only one is capable of holding down a job and he lost his job when the tsunami hit.  He was working for a fishing company which no longer exists.  They have two pictures of relatives they lost in the tsunami sitting near us.  One is of a young child.  We ask how old she is.  They tell us 50:  there are no other pictures left of her because the tsunami destroyed everything.  The man who is looking for a job goes everyday to employment places but there are many without jobs.  In the evenings he often goes with us visiting.  He never complains, in fact, feels he is blessed and needs to help us.  He is always upbeat and happy.

One lady lives in an area where the tsunami hit hard.  The water was up to the second story level but somehow her house was restorable.  Many people helped her to get her house liveable again.  She lost both of her parents in the tsunami.  They drowned in 3 feet of water because the mother could not walk well enough to get to the stairs and the father was trying to help her. 

The amazing thing is that not one of these people were complaining or were wallowing in self-pity.  They all try not to look back but look forward.  I am sure there are times when things are very hard but they refuse to give up.  The last lady I told you about is a beautician.  She has a shop in her home and is having a grand "re-opening."  She also has several photos on her wall of the volunteers who helped restore her house.  She is so thankful for them.

WE ARE SO BLESSED.

Answers to the quiz:  1.  Gleam House is a barber shop:  2.  2nd Street is a 2nd hand store:  3.  Sun R Us is convenience store like 7-11:  4.  Soft Bank is a cell phone store ("soft" ware?) :  5.  Joy Park is a casino and gambling hall:  6.  Joyfull is a restaurant (had enough to eat?):  7.  Homac is a store like Home Depot or Lowes.  All except the first one are chain stores or businesses.